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the more times one successfully leverages one's pain and suffering into something positive in one's life, the less averse one would be toward future episodes of it.

as we become less and less averse to pain and suffering, we will attract (or notice) less and less of it in our life.

a very important element in the application on this principle in my own experience - an unsurrendering faith that all is happening under the loving watch of God in whose infinite wisdom i defer to and entrust my life in.